Before getting on the horse, try to deepen your relationship with it. You can do this by petting it, bringing it some carrots to eat, or helping the groom with its care. This way, the moment to ‘mount the saddle’ will come without too many fears. Do it gently, being careful not to drop your weight onto the saddle, but sit down softly as if there are fragile things between your bottom and the saddle that shouldn’t be broken or crushed. Remember, it is important to be relaxed and natural; you should mount with ease, remembering to breathe normally. Anxiety and rushing should be avoided at all costs in order to ride well. Avoid using too much physical force and rough methods, instead, favor patience and sacrifice in order to learn the correct ‘riding position.’ Always try to ‘assist’ the horse, at first, using your legs, voice, and being careful not to obstruct its natural movements. A very important thing to remember is not to ‘pull on the mouth’ to find your balance, meaning do not apply too much pressure on the reins. Mentally repeat from time to time: shoulders open, hips forward, chin up, and loose head, with arms naturally hanging towards your body. When you need to turn with the horse (more or less in symbiosis), remember: your gaze should always anticipate the direction.